So much of the traditional job/career advice out in the world today centers on this one fraught, loaded question: What do you want to do?
For some, that’s easy: They’ve known their whole lives they wanted to be doctors or musicians or comic book artists. Some discover their niche just as the niche is born: YouTube stars, creators and makers, startup developers. If you fall into one of these categories, keep reading — there’ll be stuff for you in here, too.
For the rest of us, finding a career or dream isn’t quite as cut and dried. Sometimes it’s an issue of not knowing where to start, other times, a paralysis of choice. Sometimes a dream career seems out of reach because your own education, skill set, or financial situation stand in the way.
I’m not going to make any promises that you’ll be able to achieve your dream career. Instead, I want you to be open to a broader approach, a more open, flexible way of looking at work and at your career trajectory.
So I’m starting off with the “Finding Your Dream” series of posts. This’ll set you up to have a compass that will lead you on your own personal path to finding a job or career that works for you, and that will hopefully guide you to more fulfilling work throughout your life.
To start, I’d like you to think about what your dream has been up to this point, if you have one (if you don’t, never fear, you can pick up with us in the next paragraph). Write it in as concrete terms as you can, whether it’s “I want to be one of the first people to go to Mars,” to “I want to work with beer,” to, “I don’t want to work retail.” For this task, the more specific, the better — because I want you to break it down. Spend some time with a journal if you can, or a computer, or even your brain…but I think writing is probably best for this, because you’ll discover things as your hands translate your thoughts to paper/keyboard. Even a bullet list is fine, if you don’t feel comfortable writing a passage! But think about why this goal has been guiding you. What about it appealed to you when it first formed in your mind? What about it appeals to you now? Are there things about it that appeal to you in a non-work related way, such as the location of the work, or the time schedule/flexibility it would provide? If your past goal doesn’t appeal to you now, that’s fine — goals can and will change.
Next, I’d like you to create two lists: A list of things you would want in any job you look for at this very moment (including salary requirements, holiday requirements, schedule flexibility, location, etc), and a list of things you want for your future (these can be vague, but things like homeownership, travel funds and flexibility, family, etc). Be as wild and specific as you like on these lists, and feel free to go beyond the constraints of any one single job. If you can group the items in terms of most to least important, great, but that’s not really critical. What’s more important is to have lists of your desires in front of you.
Keep these handy, as we’ll be delving into them in the next few weeks. But also keep them handy so they’re fresh in your mind.
Congratulations! You’re on your way to finding what’s really, truly important to you.